Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (né Carnagey until c. 1922) (November 24,
1888 - November 1, 1955) was an American writer and lecturer and the
developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate
training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty
on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and
Influence People (1936), a massive bestseller that remains popular
today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
(1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books. (Click
here for full Wikipedia article)
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Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation, for
your character is what you are, while your reputation is merely what
others think you are.
Be wiser than other people if you can; but do not tell them so.
Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the
surest stepping stones to success.
Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who
flatter you.
Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind.
Fear not those who argue but those who dodge.
Feeling sorry for yourself and your present condition is not only a
waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have.
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen? Then prepare to
accept it. Then proceed to improve on the worst.
I deal with the obvious. I present, reiterate and glorify the obvious-
because the obvious is what people need to be told.
If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there
worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep.
If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of
themselves.
It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you
are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
Knowledge isn't power until it is applied.
Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by
people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.
Our fatigue is often caused not by work, but by worry, frustration and
resentment.
Our thoughts make us what we are.
People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.
Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.
Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.
The essence of all art is to take pleasure in giving pleasure.
The ideas I stand for are not mine. I borrowed them from Socrates. I
swiped them from Chesterfield. I stole them from Jesus. And I put them
in a book. If you don't like their rules, whose would you use?
Those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still.
Unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. It often means that
you have aroused jealousy and envy. Remember that no one ever kicks a
dead dog.
When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with
creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures
bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.
When we hate our enemies, we are giving them power over us: power over
our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health, and our
happiness.
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other
people than you can in two years by trying to get other people
interested in you.
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