A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
--Alain de Botton
Anyone who isn't embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn't learning enough.
--Alain de Botton
As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
--Alain de Botton
Don't despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don't- surrender to events with hope.
--Alain de Botton
Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one's own ambitions.
--Alain de Botton
Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
--Alain de Botton
Everyone wants a better life; very few of us want to be better people.
--Alain de Botton
Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behavior is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
--Alain de Botton
Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone- and finding that that's ok with them.
--Alain de Botton
Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
--Alain de Botton
Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
--Alain de Botton
Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
--Alain de Botton
One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
--Alain de Botton
One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
--Alain de Botton
People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
--Alain de Botton
Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
--Alain de Botton
The largest part of what we call 'personality' is determined by how we've opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness.
--Alain de Botton
The only people we can think of as normal are those we don't yet know very well.
--Alain de Botton
The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things.
--Alain de Botton
There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
--Alain de Botton
There is real danger of a disconnect between what's on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it's not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
--Alain de Botton
Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
--Alain de Botton
We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
--Alain de Botton
Work is most fulfilling when you're at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
--Alain de Botton
You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
--Alain de Botton
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