A daydream is an evasion.
--Thomas Merton
A man knows when he has found his vocation when he stops thinking about how to live and begins to live.
--Thomas Merton
Advertising treats all products with the reverence and the seriousness due to sacraments.
--Thomas Merton
Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.
--Thomas Merton
But there is greater comfort in the substance of silence than in the answer to a question.
--Thomas Merton
Every moment and every event of every man's life on earth plants something in his soul.
--Thomas Merton
Everybody makes fun of virtue, which by now has, as its primary meaning, an affectation of prudery practiced by hypocrites and the impotent.
--Thomas Merton
Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony.
--Thomas Merton
How deluded we sometimes are by the clear notions we get out of books. They make us think that we really understand things of which we have no practical knowledge at all.
--Thomas Merton
I cannot make the universe obey me. I cannot make other people conform to my own whims and fancies. I cannot make even my own body obey me.
--Thomas Merton
If you want to study the social and political history of modern nations, study hell.
--Thomas Merton
It is a glorious destiny to be a member of the human race, though it is a race dedicated to many absurdities and one which makes many terrible mistakes...
--Thomas Merton
Love seeks one thing only: the good of the one loved. It leaves all the other secondary effects to take care of themselves. Love, therefore, is its own reward.
--Thomas Merton
May God prevent us from becoming 'right-thinking men'- that is to say, men who agree perfectly with their own police.
--Thomas Merton
Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy.
--Thomas Merton
Peace demands the most heroic labor and the most difficult sacrifice. It demands greater heroism than war. It demands greater fidelity to the truth and a much more perfect purity of conscience.
--Thomas Merton
Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.
--Thomas Merton
Technology is not in itself opposed to spirituality and to religion. But it presents a great temptation.
--Thomas Merton
Teenagers have no monopoly (on adolescent behavior), except insofar as we are in fact a teenager society- a society that likes to play 'chicken,' not with fast cars, but with ballistic missiles.
--Thomas Merton
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
--Thomas Merton
The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.
--Thomas Merton
The greatest need of our time is to clean out the enormous mass of mental and emotional rubbish that clutters our minds.
--Thomas Merton
The least of the work of learning is done in the classrooms.
--Thomas Merton
The logic of worldly success rests on a fallacy: the strange error that our perfection depends on the thoughts and opinions and applause of other men! A weird life, indeed, to be living always in somebody else's imagination, as if that were the only place in which one could at last become real!
--Thomas Merton
The tighter you squeeze, the less you have.
--Thomas Merton
The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt.
--Thomas Merton
The whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the interdependence of all these living beings, which are all part of one another, and all involved in one another.
--Thomas Merton
To allow oneself to be carried away by a multitude of conflicting concerns, to surrender to too many demands, to commit to too many projects, to want to help everyone in everything is itself to succumb to the violence of our times.
--Thomas Merton
To consider persons and events and situations only in the light of their effect upon myself is to live on the doorstep of hell.
--Thomas Merton
We are not meant to resolve all contradictions but to live with them and rise above them and see them in the light of exterior and objective values which make them trivial by comparison.
--Thomas Merton
We are so obsessed with doing that we have no time and no imagination left for being. As a result, men are valued not for what they are but for what they do or what they have- for their usefulness.
--Thomas Merton
We have to have a deep, patient compassion for the fears of men and irrational mania of those who hate or condemn us.
--Thomas Merton
We have what we seek, it is there all the time, and if we give it time, it will make itself known to us.
--Thomas Merton
What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we are not able to cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves?
--Thomas Merton
When ambition ends, happiness begins.
--Thomas Merton
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