All of us are subjected to somebody else's power at some point. So once in a while you kiss ass. So what? Either you make your peace with that early, or you end up living your life as a crank and a misfit.
--Sue Grafton
Beware the dark pool at the bottom of our hearts. In its icy, black depths dwell strange and twisted creatures it is best not to disturb.
--Sue Grafton
Everything happens for a reason, but that doesn't mean there's a point.
--Sue Grafton
Except for cases that clearly involve a homicidal maniac, the police like to believe murders are committed by those we know and love, and most of the time they're right--a chilling thought when you sit down to dinner with a family of five. All those potential killers passing their plates.
--Sue Grafton
Ghosts don't haunt us. That's not how it works. They're present among us because we won't let go of them.
--Sue Grafton
I know there are people who believe you should forgive and forget. For the record, I'd like to say I'm a big fan of forgiveness as long as I'm given the opportunity to get even first.
--Sue Grafton
Ideas are easy. It's the execution of ideas that really separates the sheep from the goats.
--Sue Grafton
If high heels were so wonderful, men would be wearing them.
--Sue Grafton
If you're unhappy, change something.
--Sue Grafton
It's disconcerting to realize how little you have to say to someone who once occupied such a prominent place in your bed.
--Sue Grafton
Lucky is the spouse who dies first, who never has to know what survivors endure.
--Sue Grafton
Nature is composed entirely of sticks, dirt, fall-down places, biting and stinging things, and savageries too numerous to list. And I'm not the only one who feels this way. Man has been building cities since the year oughty-ought, just to get away from this stuff.
--Sue Grafton
No one with a happy childhood ever amounts to much in this world. They are so well adjusted, they never are driven to achieve anything.
--Sue Grafton
Our family histories are like fairy tales we're told from a very early age. In the tale, we're cast as hero or victim, as the infant rescued or abandoned, discounted or deified. From this we form an image of ourselves and our relationship to the world. Often it's a story we act out over and over again, trying to make the ending come out right instead of the way it did.
--Sue Grafton
People get careless when they're feeling safe.
--Sue Grafton
Perhaps when we're forced to forfeit what we own, we lose any sentimental associations. Perhaps pawning our valuables frees us in the same way a house fire destroys not only our worldly goods, but our attachment to what's gone.
--Sue Grafton
Pretending to be 'normal' is a lot harder than you think.
--Sue Grafton
Some people can't see the color red. That doesn't mean it isn't there.
--Sue Grafton
The hard thing about death is that nothing ever changes. The hard thing about life is that nothing stays the same.
--Sue Grafton
The memory is like twin orbiting stars, one visible, one dark, the trajectory of what's evident forever affected by the gravity of what's concealed.
--Sue Grafton
There are days when none of us can bear it, but the good comes around again. Happiness is seasonal, like anything else. Wait it out.
--Sue Grafton
There's a certain class of people who will do you in and then remain completely mystified by the depth of your pain.
--Sue Grafton
There's always something else. That's what makes life so much fun.
--Sue Grafton
Thinking is hard work, which is why you don't see many people doing it.
--Sue Grafton
Too many women mistake a man's hostility for wit and his silence for depth.
--Sue Grafton
We all need to look into the dark side of our nature- that's where the energy is, the passion. People are afraid of that because it holds pieces of us we're busy denying.
--Sue Grafton
What could smell better than supper being cooked by someone else?
--Sue Grafton
You can't save others from themselves because those who make a perpetual muddle of their lives don't appreciate your interfering with the drama they've created. They want your poor-sweet-baby sympathy, but they don't want to change.
--Sue Grafton
You never know which people will affect your life.
--Sue Grafton
You try to keep life simple but it never works, and in the end all you have left is yourself.
--Sue Grafton
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