A garden is always a series of losses set against a few triumphs, like life itself.
--May Sarton
A holiday gives one a chance to look backward and forward; to reset oneself by an inner compass.
--May Sarton
A house that does not have one warm, comfy chair in it is soulless.
--May Sarton
Absence becomes the greatest Presence.
--May Sarton
At any moment solitude may put on the face of loneliness.
--May Sarton
Death does frame a person and somehow it is the good that stays.
--May Sarton
Do not deprive me of my age. I have earned it.
--May Sarton
Do we always make our freedom out of someone else's bondage?
--May Sarton
Don't forget that compared to a grownup person every baby is a genius. Think of the capacity to learn! The freshness, the temperament, the will of a baby a few months old!
--May Sarton
Everything that slows us down and forces patience, everything that sets us back into the slow circles of nature, is a help. Gardening is an instrument of grace.
--May Sarton
Excellence costs a great deal.
--May Sarton
Fire is a good companion for the mind...
--May Sarton
Flowers and plants are silent presences. They nourish every sense except the ear.
--May Sarton
Gardening is an instrument of grace.
--May Sarton
How slowly one comes to understand anything!
--May Sarton
In the country of pain we are each alone.
--May Sarton
In the novel or the journal you get the journey. In a poem you get the arrival.
--May Sarton
It feels a long way up and down from zero.
--May Sarton
It is sometimes the most fragile things that have the power to endure and become sources of strength.
--May Sarton
Joy, happiness... we do not question. They are beyond question, maybe. A matter of being. But pain forces us to think, and to make connections... to discover what has been happening to cause it. And, curiously enough, pain draws us to other human beings in a significant way, whereas joy or happiness to some extent, isolates.
--May Sarton
Keep busy with survival. Imitate the trees. Learn to lose in order to recover, and remember nothing stays the same for long, not even pain. Sit it out. Let it all pass. Let it go.
--May Sarton
Lunches are just not good. They take the heart out of the day and the spaciousness from the morning's work.
--May Sarton
Most people have to talk so they won't hear.
--May Sarton
Old age is not an illness, it is a timeless ascent. As power diminishes, we grow toward the light.
--May Sarton
One does not 'find oneself' by pursuing one's self, but on the contrary by pursuing something else and learning through discipline or routine. . . who one is and wants to be.
--May Sarton
One must think like a hero to behave like a merely decent human being.
--May Sarton
One of the good elements of old age is that we no longer have to prove anything, to ourselves or to anyone else. We are what we are.
--May Sarton
Pain can make a whole winter bright, like fever, force us to live deep and hard.
--May Sarton
People are always talking about the joys of youth- but, oh, how youth can suffer!
--May Sarton
People who cannot feel punish those who do.
--May Sarton
Public education was not founded to give society what it wants. Quite the opposite.
--May Sarton
Read between the lines.Then meet me in the silence if you can.
--May Sarton
Revision is not going back and fussing around, but going forward into the process of creation.
--May Sarton
Routine is not a prison, but the way to freedom from time.
--May Sarton
Self-respect is nothing to hide behind. When you need it most it isn't there.
--May Sarton
Solitude is one thing and loneliness is another.
--May Sarton
Solitude is the salt of personhood. It brings out the authentic flavor of every experience.
--May Sarton
Sometimes one has simply to endure a period of depression for what it may hold of illumination if one can live through it, attentive to what it exposes or demands.
--May Sarton
The hardest thing we are asked to do in this world is to remain aware of suffering, suffering about which we can do nothing.
--May Sarton
The minute one utters a certainty, the opposite comes to mind.
--May Sarton
The moral dilemma is to make peace with the unacceptable.
--May Sarton
The more articulate one is, the more dangerous words become.
--May Sarton
The most valuable thing we can do for the psyche, occasionally, is to let it rest, wander, live in the changing light of room, not try to be or do anything whatever.
--May Sarton
The trouble is, old age is not interesting until one gets there. It's a foreign country with an unknown language to the young and even to the middle-aged.
--May Sarton
There is a proper balance between not asking enough of oneself and asking or expecting too much.
--May Sarton
Time unbounded is hard to handle.
--May Sarton
True feeling justifies whatever it may cost.
--May Sarton
True power is given to the vulnerable.
--May Sarton
Unless the gentle inherit the earth,
There will be no earth.
--May Sarton
We cannot afford not to fight for growth and understanding, even when it is painful, as it is bound to be.
--May Sarton
We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.
--May Sarton
We only keep what we lose.
--May Sarton
What frightens me about America today is that in the large majority there is no active sense of the value of the individual: few citizens feel that they are the Republic, responsible for what happens. And when the individual in a democracy ceases to feel his importance, then there is grave danger that he will give over his freedom, if not to a Fascist State, then to the advertising men or Publicity Agents or to the newspaper he happens to read.
--May Sarton
What is destructive is impatience, haste, expecting too much too fast.
--May Sarton
When it comes to the important things, one is always alone...
--May Sarton
When we admit our vulnerability, we include others. If we deny it, we shut them out.
--May Sarton
When you change the way you look at a thing, the thing itself changes...
--May Sarton
Why is it that people who cannot show feeling presume that that is a strength and not a weakness?
--May Sarton
Without anxiety life would have very little savor.
--May Sarton
Without darkness, nothing comes to birth, As without light, nothing flowers.
--May Sarton
Women's work is always toward wholeness.
--May Sarton
Words are more powerful than perhaps anyone suspects, and once deeply engraved in a child's mind, they are not easily eradicated.
--May Sarton
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